An American writer, Richard Bach, is well knowing by his Fantasy and Philosophy. He solves difficult problems, which are connected with "Human psychology". He does not have special education, Richard is only a pilot (in any case, he was...before he began to write). His first book was "Sea-gull", than "breach through the eternity", "One", "Plane" etc. In this stories and novels Bach taught upon lots of different topics, and one of them is about childhood. This man deadly believe that a person cannot live without his past. And what do we have there, in the past? Of course, childhood! This topic glassed in one of the latest work: "Running from the safety". The main idea of the plot is that "Richard-men" 13( he prefers to write about himself rather then to work with heroes) meat "Richard-kid". It means that he, the old one, meat in his own world a little boy of eight years old. This boy is "HE", but from the past. In this novel Richard Bach tried to answer the the question: "What will you do if you meat yourself-from-the-past?" The own correct response he has able to find is "to learn everything what you can from this kid". What can you learn from the little child from your past? What he can give us? This questions can appeared in the mind of everybody... in "Running..." Bach neatly respond to them: "he remembers all what I have forgot" Really, we have spoken about this already, all information which people get in an early age cannot be remembered further. But kids retain all this, cause it still in their active memory. Some people had critical moments in their childhood, which influence their lifes, but they cannot remember this episode – the most impotent one – and that's why cannot change the situation. For example, a man is a looser all his live. He cannot do anything with this. Why? After memorising his childhood, he remembered that he was whipped by schoolboys and after this all the school was laughing at him...He understood everything and tried to change the attitude to this situation at last we won for first time. Richard Bach had such critical moments too. At first, the death of his brother and his climbing to the water-tower. After this he understood that he was not a little boy, and "left the family and common world" after this moment he decided to become a pilot and "made the biggest fault" in the live: went to the army. Why he did it? For what he left the family? Why his behaviour was such as it was? Richard cannot understand. But after the talk with Dickey (Little Bach) he was able to explain all this to himself and " the desert" – Dickey's world – "converted in a field ofgreen grass". At first Richard was not able to "survive in the dark of the mind". But Dickey was able to return to Bach "the part of himself", and he did it. Now he could be " out of space and time". Telling things about the live and answering to Dickey's questions, Bach found lots of responses for his own issues. "Dickey knows everything about the childhood, and I knows everything about one of his Futures", - told Richard to his wife. So, the boy could find all the answers in several months, and spare 50 years of had learning the live. The man remembered the half of his life and understood the roots of all the problems. And both took that they could not live without each other. "I preserve his future, he preserves my past", - said Richard Bach and he was absolutely right.
Conclusion (Part 3).
So, we can see that the question about the Childhood is really important. It found the glass in many spheres of human life and men's deeds. It is not a science theory, but a reality. We know that every cow is an animal doesn't include the statement that every animal is a cow. It has been proved that many adults have had the good fortune to break the cycle of abuse. Yet I can certainly aver that I have never come across persecutors who weren't themselves victims in their childhood, though most of them don't know it because their feelings are repressed. The less these criminals know about themselves, the more dangerous they are to society. So I think it is crucial to grasp the difference between the statement, "every victim becomes a persecutor," which is wrong, and the statement, "every persecutor was a victim in his childhood," which I consider true. The problem is that, feeling nothing, he remembers nothing, realises nothing, and this is why surveys don't always reveal the truth. Yet the presence of a warm, enlightened witness ... therapist, social worker, lawyer, judge ... can help the criminal unlock his repressed feelings and restore the unrestricted flow of consciousness. This can initiate the process of escape from the vicious circle of amnesia and violence. Working toward a better future cannot be done without legislation that clearly forbids corporal punishment toward children and makes society aware of the fact that children are people too. The whole society and its legal system can then play the role of a reliable, enlightened and protecting witness for children at risk, children of adolescent, drug addicted criminals who may themselves become predators without such assistance. The only reason why a parent might smack his children is the parent's own history. All other so-called reasons, such as poverty and unemployment, are pure mystification. There are unemployed parents who don't spank their children and there are many wealthy parents who maltreat their children in the most cruel way and teach them to minimise the terror by calling it the right education. With a law prohibiting corporal punishment towards children, people of the next generation will not have recorded the highly misleading information in their brain, an almost irreversible damage. They will be able to have empathy with a child and understand what has been done to children over millennia. It is a realistic hope to think that then (and only then) the human mind and behaviour will change. With a law that forbids spanking every citizen becomes an enlightened witness.
So, we see that everything lays in ourselves. It is easy to understand that people can change everything around themselves. The theory about personal children problems is really correct. Now everybody can just analyse his past and remember the main idea of his last deeds. They will help him to solve the difficulties. It is the easiest way to survive in your own inside world, which can be a bright one. But the main problem is that not everybody knows about this theory, and especially such people can not be happy and live an easy life else the whole world can be changed. People will understand all their problems and (it is important) now how to behave and solve all the difficulties. It means – no depress, mad people and their deaths, good social situation, at last. To my mind we should try to use this material, because it can help us and it will be so easy to understand each other and, at the first term, ourselves, is not it?
The list of literature
1. "People, who play in games" A. Birn
2. "Psychology" Camille B. Wortman
Elizabeth F. Loftus
3. " The Childhood Trauma" Alise Miller
4. "Running from Safty" R. Bach
5. "Interpretation of dreams" S. Freud
1 The list of literature. The 2nd book.
2 The list of literature. The 1st book.
3 The list of literature. The 2nd book
4 The list of literature. The 5th book.
5 The list of literature. The 3rd book.
6 The list of literature. The 1st book.
7 The list of literature. The 3rd book.
8 The list of literature. The 3rd book.
9 The list of literature. The 2nd book.
10 The list of literature. The 5th book.
11 The list of literature. The 3rd book.
12 The list of literature. The 3rd book.
13 The list of literature. The 4th book. Other quotes are from this book.